Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Reflective Goals


I don’t really have any goals that can be reached by the end of the semester, in 2 ½ months. My goals are more of a work in progress type of thing. I have been working on them since I began the program and while I have made significant progress, I feel I have quite a way to go before I can call them finished. My goals thus far would be to:

1. Overcoming the temptation to fill every second of silence.  This is hard because it has been beat unto our heads that time is at a premium and we have to move along at a steady pace in order to work on as many problems as possible throughout the day.

2. Overcoming the temptation to focus on the positive aspects of something someone has said. It is usually the negative factor that has caused them to come to us in the first place and to skip the negative is doing the client a disservice.

3. Having a personal life.
4. Learning how to help students understand death without projecting personal feelings onto the client.
5. Learning effective ways to keep clients in the here and now rather than focusing on the past.
How the class can help reach these goals: I think the first two are simply things that have to gained through experience gained working with clients. The fourth and fifth might be improved by having more role playing in the classroom.  As for the third goal, I am the only one that can work on and achieve that goal. 

Monday, September 24, 2012

Movie Blog Post



Cyberbully
 This movie is about a teenage girl who falls victim to a cyberbully and the pain and embarrassment it causes for her at school. Cyberbullying soon to real life bullying, and soon she reaches a breaking point. Faced with thoughts of suicide she decides to fight back instead and learns she is not alone. She works to enact cyberbullying laws to help prevent what happened to her from happening to others. A counselor might like this movie because it deals with a rapidly growing problem in today’s schools.  I watched this movie this summer on Netflix and realized the portrayal of the problem was very lifelike and could be used to reach students more than a lecture would.



After the Tears-A gentle Guide to Help Children Understand Death



·         VHS Release Date: March 7, 2000
·         Run Time: 23 minutes
·         ASIN: 0966640527
This short video helps explain the process of death to children in a way that is simple for them to understand, beginning with the death of a pet and advancing to the death of a loved one. It is available through Amazon and explains death in an empathic way that would be appealing to almost all. Counselors could use it in conjunction with other approaches in explaining death to even very young students. 


Friday, September 21, 2012

Second friendship meeting


Monday I had my second group meeting on friendship. The class was extremely talkative. The subject was about comments made by other fourth graders about a wide variety of topics including what to do if someone in the group smells or how to handle someone who always tries to take over. Each student was given a turn in how they would handle a particular situation. After this activity the group were given individual bags of M&M’s and had to answer questions which had been assigned to certain colors. For example one color’s question may be about the number of siblings one has, or if given a choice where in the world they may go. The students had a great time and are all learning a lot about each other as well as how to make friends. 

Thursday, September 20, 2012


Week 5
Why Your School Needs a School Counselor
Counselors Help You Cope With Life
Ø  Group meetings with kids who are dealing with the same problem, such as divorce
Ø  Study skills
Ø  Substance abuse
Ø  Careers counseling
Ø  Diversity
Ø  Respect for others
Ø  Bullying
Ø  Abuse
Ø  Abandonment
Ø  Malnutrition
Ø  Eating disorders
Ø  Erratic behaviors
Ø  Self-esteem issues
Ø  Entitlement issues
Ø  Testing
Ø  ARC meetings
Ø  Sometimes the kids need a friendly face
Ø  The tons of paperwork nobody else wants to do
AND the most important reason of all
Ø  Because I need a job badly

Wednesday, September 19, 2012


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Monday I began group counseling with five students, three girls and two boys, all fourth graders. The topic of the group is friendship and how to be a friend as well as make friends. I used a “friendship box” which included a mirror, a rubber band, a ruler, glue and a die. Each item was used to illustrate the important aspect of friendship. For example the glue was used to show that friends stick together, no matter what. The rubber band illustrated the need for flexibility within a friendship; the ruler showed the need for good judgment and the die showed the need to take turns in whatever you are doing. The students loved the lesson. The only issue I had with them was they didn’t want to leave when the lesson was over.
Sep. 13, 2012
Daiquiri Adkins
You May Be Right, I May Be Crazy
Sep. 6, 2012
A website example
School Counselor.com
Sep. 5, 2012
A technology website
School Counselors Online Professional Exchange
Sep. 5, 2012
A technology example
https://sconlineprofessionalexchange.wikispaces.com/
This is a link to a site that is for counselors to exchange ideas or ask questions of other counselors. When you first ask to join the forum, it may take a couple hours to receive a confirmation e-mail, but once you get in, there are many forums to search for answers to questions you may have and if you can't find what you need, you can always start a new thread. As a beginning counselor, I think resources like this will prove invaluable.

A website example
 http://www.schoolcounselor.com/resources/counselor-website-faq.htm
This is a link to a site that helps you start  a school website, leading you step by step on how to set it up and what to include. It lists free ways to progress as well as low cost options. I partiularily like the general info section becasue it started at the biginning about including a picture of the school and included stuff that might be forgotten, such as include a picture of yourself. Not only does it say to include the mission statement but to include a section to update features as needed.
Sep. 5, 2012
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Today we had three guidance lessons; the first, second and fifth grades. It was different lessons on fair play and showed the students how they would have more friends if they played fairly. Later, a student was sent to the guidance office becasue he had been caught drawing guns in class and told a boy he would kill him. After talking to him, he saw how inappropriate such statement are.
Sep. 5, 2012
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To me being a counselor means to be able to be an active listener while maintaining an unconditional positive regard for clients. Counselors are more important than ever in Kentucky because I just read an article that said 22 children were killed last year and 32 were nearly killed by abusive parents. I wonder how many could have been saved if the parent’s had received counseling to deal with their drug addiction and anger issues. I want to be a counselor because if I can prevent the death of one child I will feel that I have accomplished a world of good. The major contribution I think I can make is to help the children to  overcome their fears enough to be able to reach out for help.
Sep. 3, 2012
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I worked with my first student yesterday; an 8 year old male with fear issues.  After speaking with him a few minutes I realized that the main fear he had was the Code Red at school.  I didn’t know what Code Red was so I asked him to explain it to me.  Code Red is a safety measure at the schools when a stranger who is perceived to be a threat enters the school. He went into great detail explaining the procedures about turning off the lights, racing to the large walk in closets and pushing a filing cabinet in front of the locked door. All the children crouch on the floor in the dark, without speaking. I agree with the safety measures since school shootings have become far too commonplace, but I wonder if there shouldn’t be a program in place to help the children realize that not every stranger is there to do them harm.  Common sense has to be used in explaining danger to students, because otherwise, we are going to end up with a generation of timid, fearful young people. 
Aug. 30, 2012
Jera Case
Thoughts and Ideas

Robin Jones
My So-Called Life
Aug. 29, 2012
Joshua Edwards
Blue Devil Dog
http://bluedevilblog41.blogspot.com
Aug. 29, 2012
Eric Hardin
just BEric
Aug. 29, 2012
Dr. Shavers
Counseling with Technology Tools
Aug. 29, 2012
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Today I went to McBrayer and worked with the fifth, second and the first grade classes for guidance on bullying and friendship. Mrs. Powell told me she visits every class twice a month. The lessons are customized for the needs of the class, with every class having extra lessons on bullying and how to prevent it. I also sat in on a fifth grade class covertly observing a student for Mrs. Powell.  The student is on a very destructive path and they are looking for any way to help change his behavior. The student's older brother also attended the school and is now a very troubled high school on the verge of dropping out. The hope is to change the behavior in the younger student while there is still time.  I am returning tomorrow for an ARC meeting and am scheduled to go to the preschool for an ARC meeting in which the parents are fighting to prevent the students being placed in Special Ed.
  I am also preparing a four session lesson on friendship with a group of four students. I have several ideas on how to teach these lessons-a few of which might actually work.

Joshua Edwards
Blue Devil Dog
http://bluedevilblog41.blogspot.com
Aug. 29, 2012
Eric Hardin
just BEric
Aug. 29, 2012
Dr. Shavers
Counseling with Technology Tools
Aug. 29, 2012
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Today I went to McBrayer and worked with the fifth, second and the first grade classes for guidance on bullying and friendship. Mrs. Powell told me she visits every class twice a month. The lessons are customized for the needs of the class, with every class having extra lessons on bullying and how to prevent it. I also sat in on a fifth grade class covertly observing a student for Mrs. Powell.  The student is on a very destructive path and they are looking for any way to help change his behavior. The student's older brother also attended the school and is now a very troubled high school on the verge of dropping out. The hope is to change the behavior in the younger student while there is still time.  I am returning tomorrow for an ARC meeting and am scheduled to go to the preschool for an ARC meeting in which the parents are fighting to prevent the students being placed in Special Ed.
  I am also preparing a four session lesson on friendship with a group of four students. I have several ideas on how to teach these lessons-a few of which might actually work.
Aug. 29, 2012
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Welcome to my blog! I will be working at McBrayer Elementary for the first part of my practicum with Nicole Powell.